Friend 2 Friend: Resiliency and Growth

Ruby: Mmhmm. Hey, do you remember what we learned in Mister Murphy’s class? About fixed and growth perspective?

Dan: (surprised) Uh, yeah, why?

Ruby: Well, I noticed that you've maybe had a little bit of a fixed mindset about your presentation. 

Dan: (sighs) This stuff is really hard Ruby. Like, I know I should have "growth perspective" or whatever, but that's really hard to do in real life.

Ruby: I know. But I think it can really help. And you can always talk to me, or your parents, or our teachers if you need a little help getting that perspective. 

Dan: So, like, what do I do now? What happens the next time I have a presentation and, and something goes wrong?

Ruby: (supportive) Sure. Well, how did you prepare for this presentation?

Dan: I wrote out a bunch of note cards but they were all out of order. 

Ruby: That would make it pretty hard to stay on track. 

Dan: This is going to sound weird but, what if you heckled me?

Ruby raises their eyebrows, surprised. 

Dan: Like, I can practice going through my presentation and then you can pretend to be someone laughing, or passing a note, or like, (sighs) I don't know, things that could distract me or mess me up. 

Ruby: Oh I get it, like practicing for when things go wrong. That's a smart idea, Danners. 

Dan: Thanks. Maybe if I learn to work through or around those moments I'll be more confident going into my next presentation. 

Ruby: (teasing) Alright, but just know I'm coming for you. I'm going to be so annoying. 

Dan: (laughs) Bring it on, Rubes. 

Ruby: So, how are you feeling now?

Dan: Better. I mean, I still don't love what happened but, I'll get through it. And I know how I can do better next time so hopefully it doesn't happen again. 

Ruby: I believe in you. 

Dan: Do you think we could talk to Miss Mooney and see if she'll let me redo the presentation, or do extra credit or something?

Ruby: Yeah, it can't hurt. I'll go with you, strength in numbers. 

Dan: Thanks, Rhubarb.

Ruby: Any time. 

Pic 2: The scene changes to a screen with an image of an award badge, with text that reads, "Dan did a great job, and earned some Resiliency and Growth Perspective badges!" 

Pic 3: The next screen is titled "Techniques Dan applied" and has an image of an award badge with a check mark inside it. This badge is titled, "Recognize Badge." Text underneath reads, "Dan named his emotions and recognized the impact his self-talk has."

Pic 4: The title remains. This badge has a list inside it, with two check marks and one x mark. This badge is titled, "Reassess Badge." Text underneath reads, "Dan thought about his perspective and how to move from a Fixed Perspective to Growth Perspective."

Pic 5: The title remains. This badge has an image of a looping arrow inside it. The badge is titled, "Retry Badge." The text underneath reads, "Dan looked at the bigger picture to see the positives and negatives as part of a larger process instead of a setback."

Pic 6: The title changes to "Choices Dan made." This badge has a magnifying glass inside it, and is titled "Explore Badge." The text underneath reads, "Dan explored many different options, searching for answers at every turn."