Positive Parenting

Now try identifying some action reflections. 

Pic 22: The screen transitions to one titled “Identify Action Reflections.” It includes an example statement and multiple response options with feedback. The text on the slide reads, “Let’s look at different possible responses to see which action reflections best turn a barrier or statement of how, when, or where into a possible action step.” The example statement reads “A sport would be a great way for Jayda to get more activity, but she’s very shy.”

Pic 23: The screen transitions to the next slide, with the example statement being “Sometimes it’s hard to get the kids to behave without the TV.”

Pic 24: The screen transitions to the next slide, with the example statement being “I have friends who bike to work, and they seem to like it.”

Pic 25: The screen transitions to the next slide, with the example statement being “I tried running before work. But it took too much time, so I stopped.”

Pic 26: The screen changes to one which includes the symbols and text for “Simple Reflections,” “Complex Reflections,” and “Action Reflections.”

Simple reflections, to show you’re listening, complex reflections, to add meaning and move a conversation forward, and action reflections, to transform barriers into plans, are all powerful tools to help clients move toward change. 

Pic 27: The images and text fade away and the screen returns to a close-up of Eva.

As the experts on their own lives, people are naturally inclined to trust their own judgment over any outsiders, even yours! Research shows that by avoiding a directive tone and using reflections as part of motivational interviewing, even a single session with an empathetic counselor can lead to favorable outcomes.

Pic 28: Eva disappears and is replaced with an image of a health coach with a word bubble above their head containing a figure on a treadmill talking to a client who has their hands on their hips and a word bubble above their head that contains an image of a figure on a bicycle.

By listening to and emphasizing a client’s own arguments for change, you can work with their ideas instead of fighting them.

Pic 29: The client and health coach move closer together, both smiling and extending their arms with an image of a figure on a bicycle above their heads.

and make it far more likely that they’ll follow through with a plan. After all, it was their idea!