Talk to Family: Cancer Risk

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Help your family make good decisions

Be Positive as you share small chunks of info.

Stop to see how they’re doing and express empathy.

Help them understand what they can do next and respect their decisions.

LINDA: Now you can ask a little more about family risk and genetic testing, or if you're ready, you can put this into practice!

The next topics will be presented one at a time as response options.

The learner chooses the response option: What about talking to children and teens?

LINDA: It's often best to have many small talks over time. Share a little at a time and give it time to sink in. If it's hard to find alone time for talks, you could use family time, like around the dinner table or on a drive together.

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LINDA: For some kids, knowing they have a higher risk could be a burden. Some might worry about you getting cancer, too. Be ready to address their concerns, and use your judgment about how much medical detail they’re ready for. You might want to wait on giving them all the details until they're old enough to start making some decisions about their health.

On the other hand, kids might surprise you with how ready they are, especially kids who've watched cancer happen in the family.

No matter when you decide to talk to them, it will help them a lot if you collect and write down info about your family’s health.

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Collect family health info

Any cancers or other conditions your family has had

Who had them

At what age they were diagnosed

Any genetic testing results you might have

All of this could be important information for your child if and when they start getting screened or tested. 

LINDA: One last thing is there are some gene mutations that can increase children’s chances of getting cancer when they're still young. You can ask a doctor or genetic counselor which genes those are, and if they run in your family you can ask whether to have counseling and testing for your children.

The learner chooses the response option: How do I talk to adults I'm not that close to?

LINDA: Good question. It's important to tell all your blood relatives the gene mutation runs in your family and they might be more likely to get certain cancers. 

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Ways to tell your blood relatives

Talk to them yourself

Find someone else to talk to them

Have a group call

Send letters or emails

There are tips and sample emails in the Resources section.

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Tell all your blood relatives

Include all your blood relatives, of all genders. They can have risks you might not think about.

For example, a mutation linked to breast cancer can put men at higher risk for breast cancer and other cancers. And they can pass the mutation on to their children.

LINDA: With extended family, it's especially important to respect their ability to make their own decisions. You're just there to share information and support them as they think about what to do.

Often the biggest challenge is how to start the conversation. You can practice a few ways today.

Player chooses the response option: Tell me more about how cancer can run in families.

LINDA: Everyone has some chance of getting cancer. Some people have a higher chance than others. One source of risk is gene changes, or mutations, we can inherit from our parents. That's how cancer runs in families.

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LINDA: Knowing your family history or getting a genetic test can tell you about your chances of getting cancer. If you know you have higher chances, you can take steps to lower those chances of getting cancer or catch it early. Cancer is often easier to treat if you catch it early.

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Family history & Genetic Testing

Learn about your cancer risk

Try to reduce risk

Catch it early

Player chooses the response option: What's a gene?

LINDA: Genes are like a set of directions that tell your body how to grow and function. You get them from your parents, and they make you you. They affect lots of things, from your eye color to height. Some of these genes may have changes, or mutations, in them that can affect your health.

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Player chooses the response option: What's a genetic test?

LINDA: If genes are directions for how your body works, a genetic test looks at parts of those directions. It looks for anything unusual, certain changes, or mutations, that we know are linked to higher chances of health problems.

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Genetic Testing: Looks for changes or mutations linked to higher chances of having health problems.